Be others-centered in your communication

As we mature in age most of us also mature in attitude and communication. A key indicator of maturity can be found in our interpersonal communication.

When we are young we are naturally selfish. Sharing is a learned concept not an inherent one. This selfishness can also be see seen in our communication. While we are young our lives revolve around us. However, a key aspect of maturity, I feel, is becoming others-centered in both attitude and communication.

It is important to be others-centered in our attitude, communication, and in our lives so our interpersonal relationships can be positive and truly meaningful.

Learn to be others-centered in your communication and relationships. Just another thought to consider.

T.J. Martin
Opelika, AL
www.tjmartin.org

Are you committed to God's purposes?

I ask you: When you're in a crisis, do you cry out, "Lord, where are you when I need you? Aren't you committed to my deliverance?"

But what if the Lord should say to you, "Where are you when I need a voice? I need voices in these sinful times, pure vessels through whom I can speak.

You say you want me to come to your crisis—yet you remain a part of the wicked, worldly system. Tell me—are you committed to my purposes?"

(from David Wilkerson Today)

T.J. Martin
Opelika, AL
www.tjmartin.org

Live like you were dying - Live with urgency

I finished a terrific book called "The Last Lecture" which is the story of a dying professor's wise advice on life. From the beginning of the story I was gripped by his situation, the fact he had months to live, which was the underlying motivation for his desire to share his wisdom both through his last lecture and the book.

Throughout the book there is a sense of urgency to not waste the time he had left. This was a constant message since he didn't have time to waste, he only had a short time to live. This professor's story and theme is similar to the Tim McGraw song "Live Like You Were Dying". The messages being passed along bring up a good point - we should all live as if we are dying, because we are. It can be a hard reality to face, especially for the young, that we are all given a finite time to live, and it is up to us to be good stewards of the time we have been given.

I firmly believe we've been created for a purpose, and we have been given a short time to fulfill that purpose. Seek God's guidance, don't waste the time you have been given. Live with urgent purpose.

Today, don't waste the time you have been given. Live like you were dying.

Another thought to consider.

Timothy (T.J.) Martin
www.tjmartin.org
Birmingham, AL

Success

SUCCESS:
At age 4 success is . . . . Not piddling in your pants.
At age 12 success is . . . Having friends.
At age 17 success is . . Having a driver's license.
At age 35 success is .. . ... ..having money.
At age 50 success is . . . Having money....
At age 70 success is . .. . Having a drivers license.
At age 75 success is . ... . Having friends.
At age 80 success is . . .. Not piddling in your pants.

 

(received by email)

 

Timothy (T.J.) Martin

Opelika, AL

www.tjmartin.org

When we mess up, there is still God's grace

Many times it may take a dramatic event to bring us to our knees. Many of us may be struggling with sin in our lives (laziness, lust, adultery, anger, etc...), and that sin is bringing us down. Many times we will continue to make excuses and exhaust all our resources in order to keep that sin in our lives.

However, many times we come to a decision point when we lose something that is dear to us, and we must be dependant on the Lord. It is at that point when we can truly understand God's grace and mercy. David Wilkerson put it well when he said, "It is impossible to understand God's grace until we come to the end of our own resources and experience his mercy. That grace delivers from all shame and guilt." A unique aspect of Christianity is that grace and mercy are given to us, we can't earn them.

Take today to realize what changes you need to make in your life to rid your life of sin. Get right with God, so you can get right with others. Don't wait for a dramatic event to bring you to your knees.

Another thought to consider.

Timothy (T.J.) Martin
Opelika, AL
www.tjmartin.org

Jesus will help you finish the race!

You may have fallen down in the Christian race, but you can get up and run
again. Jesus will not let you lie down by the track, exhausted, crippled. He
will lift up your weakened knees and give you supernatural strength to finish.

He will not fail you. By grace, you are going to finish the race and the Lord
will be at the finish line to say, "Well done!"

(from David Wilkerson's Finishing the Race)

 

Timothy (T.J.) Martin

Montgomery, AL

Two Wolves - Lesson for Life

One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people.  He said, "My son, the battle is between two wolves inside us all. "One is Evil - It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego. The other is Good - It is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith." The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather: "Which wolf wins?" The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one you feed."

(received via email, source unknown)

 

Another thought to consider.

 

T.J. Martin

Opelika, AL

www.tjmartin.org

 

Great things happening for Team Focus

Great things are happening! So many doors are opening and it is great to see Team Focus growing. The Auburn-Opelika program is up and running and has plenty of room to grow. This week there were some major partnerships made in Montgomery that will allow us to begin having meetings within the next month. Ground-work is being laid in Troy for us to begin programming there, and Prattville is still on the radar for expansion.

 

When I was hired at the beginning of this year we were struggling to keep afloat the program in Auburn-Opelika, but over the past few months so many great opportunities and partnerships have been made in order for us to be able to reach more young men with the benefits of our program. It is very encouraging to see.

 

However, we are still looking for more resources, volunteers, and support from the communities where we have chapters. We are a small program and it doesn't take much for us to be able to provide a lot for the fatherless young men we work with. It is important for us to have good Christian men in the community to help, churches who are willing to provide support, and people who are willing to help provide resources for our young men. Team Focus is a tremendous program, and I am truly blessed to be involved with such a great organization.

 

As we move forward with expanding our program in the east and central Alabama areas we still face many challenges to come. Please keep us in your prayers and giving as we continue to help guide young men to the ultimate victory.

 

T.J. Martin

Montgomery, AL

www.tjmartin.org

 

Trials are a joyful process

James 1:2-3 (NIV) says, "Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance." Here James is telling us to consider the trials we face to be a joyous occasion. I don't know about you, but when I am facing tests and trials I am usually not very joyful. However, James is telling us that we need to think more long term. We may face trials now and think short-term, but we should be thinking more long-term. Going through those trials and tests of faith will help develop in us more patience and perseverance, and that is a cause for joy!

 

If you're facing a trial or test of faith today, know that God can use it to make you a better person, so there should be cause for joy even through the toughest trial. Remember that trials are a joyful process.

 

This is T.J. Martin, with another thought to consider.

 

Montgomery, AL

www.tjmartin.org

 

Are you being "Christlike" today?

The term "Christlike" can be confusing, however, I feel the term relates to our attitudes as Christians. Ruth Bell Graham said, "the term has to do with Christ's attitude toward His Father's will."

At times we as Christians are not the best representation. Many times our attitude is not very "Christlike." How should we answer those who are discouraged with Christianity because of Christians who do not represent Christ well?

I believe Dr. Akbar Haqq said it best when he said, "I am not offering you Christians ... I am offering you Christ."
Christ was perfect, we are not. As Christians we must put our trust in Him who was perfect, and do our best to stay in His will, imitate Christ, be "Christlike", and have the attitude of Christ.

Are you doing your best to be "Christlike" today? Another thought to consider.

T.J. Martin
Opelika, AL
www.tjmartin.org

The Concept of Grace

Sometimes it is hard for us as humans to fully understand grace. We hear the phrase "His grace is sufficient," which comes from 2 Corinthians 12:9, "My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness." However, at times grace can be hard to actually understand, and even harder for us to put into practice. We ask ourselves how our sin can be fully covered by His grace.

 

Dr. David Jeremiah once said, "The concept of grace is hard to understand because it's so far removed from how we as fallen people relate to each other. But grace is grace--and grace changes things." In Romans 5:20 it says, "...where sin abounded, grace abounded much more, so that as sin reigned in death, even so grace might reign through righteousness to eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord."

 

Another thought to consider,

 

T.J. Martin

Opelika, Alabama

www.tjmartin.org

 

Don't go through the day being proud

Pride can get in the way of us moving forward. Just like with Pharaoah, he hardened his heart and dug in his heels. His pride would not allow him to admit he was wrong and Moses was right. Pharoah's pride cost him and his nation a great deal. Don't be like Pharaoh. If your heels are dug in over an issue because of pride, let it go. Remember it says in James 4:6 that God opposes the proud but gives grace to and favors the humble. There is an anonymous quote that says "Swallowing pride seldome leads to indigestion." Humility is just one characterisitic of great leadership. Don't go through the day being proud, take time to practice humility.

 

Just another thought to consider.

 

T.J. Martin

Montgomery, AL

www.tjmartin.org

A lesson from Coach Mike's book

It's official - Montgomery & AUM here I come!

So it's official. I'm moving to Montgomery. I met with my landlord today, he is a great guy. He invited me to his home where I met his son and his father. He invited me in, we discussed the lease and then he offered me a late lunch. It just so happened I was a little weak because I was running around and forgot to eat, so his wife's delicious roast beef really hit the spot. They are a great christian family, and I am very blessed to now be associated with them.

 

Prior to meeting with my landlord I met with my temporary academic advisor at Auburn Univeristy Montgomery. He was really nice and helpful, and was able to get me going with what classes I should start off taking. I will be taking Intro to Public Administration and Administration of Nonprofit Organizations. These classes will go towards a  MPA with a conce ntration. What that means is I will take 36 hours of classes total, and if all goes well, I'll have a masters degree in Public Administration and a certificate in Nonprofit Management and Leadership.

 

On a side note, I was also accepted into Auburn Univeristy today. It's great news, but unfortunately I must defer for the time being since I'll be in Montgomery. If it could work out I would love to take at least one communications class in the spring because I would still love to persue a masters in communications, but we'll have to see how things work out between now and then.

 

With a new city, comes a new school, new friendships, new experiences, and new challenges. I am very excited about what is in store.

 

That's all for now, I must head to bed so I can get up and head to the office tomorrow.

 

T.J. Martin

Opelika, AL

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Making some sacrifices

Have you ever had to give away something that you have wanted and wanted for years?

I am currently facing this struggle in my life, and I am being taught a little lesson in sacrifice. 

The disciples were asked to drop their nets and jobs, leave their homes and follow Jesus. Why are we any different.

I am coming to terms with the fact that the Lord has called me to make some sacrifices and follow him.

T.J. Martin
Auburn, AL
www.tjmartin.org

Be a tidal wave of happiness (the little girl at the airport story)

I was reminded today of a recent airport experience I had. I was walking through the airport and decided to utilize one of those movable walkways, a kind of flat escalator. I was standing there as the walkway moved me along, when all of a sudden I heard the thump, thump, thump of little feet running. I turn to look behind me as a little girl, probably no more than 8 years old comes running past me. A look of sheer joy on her face as she ran, pink backpack on, and hair blowing in the wind. She was running with all of her might, laughing as she ran, and clearly having fun.

This scene was in stark contrast to the dozens of travelers around with their disgruntled looks of travel-frustration. However, as the little girl ran by I noticed couples and businessmen turn and smile as this girl ran passed them enjoying the simple pleasure of running through the airport. This girl was a tidal wave of happiness that took hold of everyone she passed by. Her joy was contagious, which was clearly evident on the faces of each person she passed. Faintly behind me I could hear her parents calling her to come back, at which point she stopped turned around and ran with the same blissful energy back to her parents. I believe all who witnessed this little girl's excitement and happiness, no matter how bad a mood they were in, had to smile.

Children often see joy in the simplest of things. Let us be a tidal wave of happiness for others. Let us live our lives not afraid of the constraints of adulthood, and live our lives to the fullest, seeing each day as a new adventure filled with wonders and laughter.

Just another thought to consider.

T.J. Martin

Opelika, AL

www.tjmartin.org

Let us reflect Christ

One glimpse of the Lord's glory, one vision of his precious holiness, and
Stephen could no longer be hurt. The stones and the angry cursing were all
harmless to him because of the joy set before him. One glimpse of Christ's
glory places you above all your circumstances. Keeping your eyes on Christ,
consciously reaching out to him every waking hour, provides peace and serenity
as nothing else can.

"But we all, with open face beholding as in a glass the glory of the Lord, are
changed into the same image from glory to glory, as by the Spirit of the Lord"
(2 Corinthians 3:18). Stephen caught the rays of the glorified Man in heaven
and reflected them to a Christ-rejecting society.

How true that we become what we behold. The proper translation should read, "We
all, with open face mirroring the glory, are changed!" The idea is that the
Christian reflects, like a mirror, the glory on which he gazes continually. It
is we who are "in the glass"—a mirror—looking on Christ, the object of our
affection and becoming like him in the process of beholding.

When the enemy comes in like a flood and troubling circumstances get us down,
we need to both amaze and condemn the world around us by our sweet, restful
repose in Christ. Since we see by our spiritual mind, this is accomplished by
keeping our minds stayed on Christ.

 

taken from "David Wilkerson Today"

Read the complete devotion online: http://www.worldchallenge.org/en/devotions/2010/a-mirror

 

 

T.J. Martin

Opelika, Al

www.tjmartin.org

Speak hope

Our children are effected by the motivation we give them. Many of our children are constantly surrounded by negative demotivational talk and attitudes. My mother used to tell me to be careful what I said because I may speak it into existence. The same goes for parents when they speak to their children. We should build our children up, not talk down to them or call them negative names, especially if we're adults. How we speak to our children will have a lasting effect in their lives. Speak hope, be constructive, show love, build up, and don't tear-down.

Just another thought to consider.

T.J. Martin
Auburn, Al
www.tjmartin.org

Cherish, Live, & Dream

T.J. Martin

Opelika, AL

www.tjmartin.org

random thought on my mind

Live with purpose . . . For a purpose

We were put on this earth to live, enjoy life, and make a difference.

We are here for a reason, and  we never know when we will be called home.

Don't continue to put off tomorrow what you should do today!

Cherish yesterday's memories. Live today to the fullest. Dream for tomorrow.

Love God, Love your family, Love your friends

Live and love so you have no regrets!

 

T.J. Martin

Deland, FL

www.tjmartin.org

Early morning chorus

It's early in the morning. I'm listening to the birds chirp away. I hear them more clearly now with my bedroom window open, they are singing away, welcoming the day.

The sun has yet to rise, but as I listen to the chorus being sung outside my window I realize it is a familier tune. One I've heard before. In fact one I've heard many times before from this exact spot. I am transported through memories, memories from years ago, yet seem so recent.

Sleeping late on a weekend, on a holiday, or when family was visiting and being awakened by this same delightful melody outside my window. Or listening to nature's symphony laying in the grass on a sunny summers day filled the trios and duets of songbirds nearby.

As I lay here I am reminded that this is my home. A home that through the years has been filled with love, warmth, and music. An early morning reminder of the many beautiful blessings God has provided. 

T.J. Martin
Opelika, AL

Across the water from Seattle is a place called Bremerton

We got in a little after lunch today. We had a nice ride over on the ferry. We got to the hotel and hung out with Uncle James, Grandma, Jay, and Nan. The Keany family is a hilarious group, I am very fortunate to be related to such a funny and life-loving family. Today was the day when Margot Grace Du Bey and Travis James Keany were to be wed. The wedding started around 6 p.m. with beautiful violin music. The ceremony was an interreligious one, with elements of both Christian and Jewish religions. It was very unique and very beautiful. The wedding ceremony was followed by some refreshments and then dinner and dancing. It was a wonderful time to get to sit and talk with relatives, who for my whole life I have only heard about. It was great to get to meet them in person. Now I can finally put faces with names, and I cannot wait for the next time that we all get together, be it another wedding or the next family reunion. Dad and I are waking up early to get some breakfast, say some final goodbyes, and catch the ferry back over, so that is all for now. Overall, I have had a fantastic day, full of celebration, fun, family, and plenty of laughter.

T.J. Martin

Bremerton, WA

www.tjmartin.org

Some walking in Canada, eh?

At first I let Dad read the map. We made a wrong turn, and then I took over as map man. Victoria is a beautiful city, and the Empress Hotel is very elegant. We walked downtown, visited the hotel, walked down Government Street, and stopped at a McDonalds. Just so I could say I’ve eatin at one in almost every country I’ve been to. The British Columbia parliament building is located in Victoria, and is lit up with lights at night, not sky lights, think more of like white Christmas lights around the Montgomery Capital Building and that would be a close resemblance. We got back on the ship and are headed back to Seattle for an early morning departure. We leave the ship around 8 a.m. and head over to Bremerton for the Keany & Du Bey wedding. This will be an amazing opportunity for me to meet family members who I have never met in person, and an opportunity to celebrate marriage. Off to bed, next stop is in Bremerton.

T.J. Martin

Victoria, British Columbia (Canada)

www.tjmartin.org

On a Boat, at sea

Another day at sea, we slept in today and enjoy the fine cuisine the ship has to offer. Tonight is formal night so we get to dress up in shirt and ties. Tonight we are also going to catch two shows. The first is the “So You Wanna Dance” production show and the other is an impressionist. On to another beautiful day on a boat!

T.J. Martin

On a boat, at sea, in some really cold water

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Train Ride in the Mountains of Alaska (and a few feet of Canada)

Today we woke up in Skagway. Our excursion was a beautiful train ride into the mountains. The White Pass Scenic Railway was originally built as one of two routes to get to the Klondike Gold Fields. We were not in search of gold on our trip, but it was tremendous ride through this magnificent and historical mountains. If the mountains could only tell of what they had seen over time, they would have a great story to tell. This has been by far the greatest and most beautiful excursion of the trip. We technically were over the Canadian border for a few minutes as our train engine switched sides, but we didn't get off so there was no need to have passports.

The White Pass Railroad took us up a 20 mile ride up into the mountains. After getting back from our train ride, Dad decided he wanted to mail some postcards from Alaska. We had bought some earlier, but hadn’t had time to fill them out and mail them. All-A-Board was at 4:30 so we had less than 30 minutes to get on board or the boat would be leaving us. Thus at 4:00 p.m. Dad ran back into Skagway to put postcards in the mail. I nervously waited for him on the dock. It was a long way back into town, and the Post Office was on the other side of town. But, he successfully ran into town and back in time for us to board the ship at 4:25. I was afraid we wouldn’t make it, but we did, thank goodness!!

T.J. Martin
Skagway, AK
www.tjmartin.org

Juneau

Early Wednesday morning we pulled into Tracy Arm around 6 a.m. local time. Dad and I got up around 6:30 to go see. Tracy Arm is a location where, as recently as 400 years ago, a glacier once sat. The erosion of tides and currents have cut an inlet. Ships can now navigate into Tracy Arm where there are spectacular views, shear cliffs, waterfalls, small icebergs, and glacially polished rocks which create a stunning view.  After taking some pictures and eating some breakfast, I was ready to go back to sleep. 

Dad was awake so he went back up to check out the scenery. Around noon we went to the Trident Grill and had some burgers and grabbed a couple of ice cream cones. Next it was time to head to the pier for our second excursion of our trip. We were going sport fishing in Juneau and looking for the elusive King Salmon. Dad and I didn’t catch anything, but the other two on our excursion caught some Dolly Varden Trout. There are a ton of bald eagles living up here in Alaska, and there were times on our excursion when we saw two or three flying around. They are beautiful and majestic creatures. We headed back to the boat and had a late dinner at the Sante Fe Dining Room then Dad went back to the room and I went to watch The Blind Side. 

Overall, a very great day! Now on to Skagway.

T.J. Martin

Juneau, AK

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I think I can in Ketchikan

Tuesday we pulled into Ketchikan. We woke up and had a morning breakfast to give us plenty of energy before beginning our first excursion. Our first excursion . . .bike riding. Our goal . . . not to pass out. The hills weren’t very tall, but still tough for an out-of-shape father and son. It left us chugging up those hills sayin “I think I can, I think I can.” We successfully made it to the end of the one highway in the city, and got to experience a short hike through the Tongas National Forrest. With beautiful greenery, this is actually a rain forest. Prior to the excursion my dad and I were wondering if we could make it on the Clover Pass Bike Tour. Now we know we can, in Ketchikan. Then we walked to downtown Ketchikan and looked around before heading back to our ship. Wednesday we are heading out to go fishing for the elusive King Salmon. 

T.J. Martin

Ketchikan, AK

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I'm On A Boat!!

Today was our first full day on the boat. After a successful flight and check-in to our ship we enjoyed the Horizon Buffet for both lunch and dinner. I attempted to play some Texas Holdem, unsuccessfully. We woke up this morning and got a late lunch at the buffet. There was a Masons Get-Together at the Crooners Lounge today around noon. It was an opportunity to meet some freemasons from around the world with representations from Australia and Canada. I then went with my dad to an enrichment lecture called "From Ketchikan to Barrow" which taught us about local wildlife and activities. It was a terrific lecture and was very informational.

 

Dad and I then signed up for a Ping Pong Tournament. We both got beat in the first round. There are many international individuals who apparently live and breathe table tennis and are much better than us southerners. Dad's opponent was from Spokane, Washington and mine was a young guy from Maui here celebrating his brother's graduation from high school. We grabbed an ice cream cone from and then a snack from the Trident Grill before heading back to the room and taking a nap. We woke up in time to change in to our suits for formal night.

 

Tonight was one of the two nights when we had to dress up for the evening. We kept it simple and wore suit and ties, but some people were dressed to the nines in their tux's and evening gowns.  At dinner we ate with a father and son from Michigan and enjoyed the fine dining of the Pacific Moon Restaurant. Then we attended an amazing show called "Piano Man" which was a selection of performances of Billy Joel, Liberace, Barry Manilow, and Elton John.

 

Now we are heading to bed so we can wake up in Ketchikan and go on a bike tour. That's all. Oh, and I'm on a Boat!!!

 

T.J. Martin

On a Boat

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Da Plane, Da Plane

We have just taken off from the Atlanta airport. Dad and I are across the isle from each other. The plane we are on has three seats on each side, and we both have the benefit of having a vacant seat between us and our other seat buddy.

Dad's seat buddy is a businessman from Atlanta who works in software training of somekind. They've been discussing their family and their travels. My seat buddy is Quinton Teal who recently signed to play football with the Seattle Seahawks. He is originally from Memphis and played college ball in Carolina. He starts practice tomorrow and is on his way out to Seattle to get to work for the upcoming pro season... so cool.

The plane has this free inflight internet which is awesome! I am flying high in the air and can still get online. We were just served our refreshments and I am about to start reading until I doze off. Sleeping always makes the flight shorter, and 5 hours isn't that bad of a flight, so we should be in Seattle before we know it. Seattle here we come!

T.J. Martin
Inflight on a plane somewhere over the US
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The time has come. Alaska is almost here!!

I love traveling. If I could do it all the time, I would. I love driving, I love riding, and I love flying. If I could travel for the rest of my life I would. However, that should be saved for retirement. But for now I get the pleasure of taking a vacation to a faraway place. It has been many years since I have done any long distance flying. In 2004 I had the amazing experience to fly overseas to Europe a couple times, and more recently I attended a Circle K International Convention in Portland, Oregon. This time we are making our way to Alaska through Seattle, taking a cruise, and attending a family wedding.

 

Years ago my grandmother took me to Hawaii. I was in fourth grade. She made me keep a journal of all my thoughts and activities. I attribute that journal to being the reason why I remember so well that amazing trip. Every bit of this trip is exciting, and I am using this blog as a journal to document my experiences and thoughts.

 

I am unsure if I will have regular access to phone or email. Or how much I want to have access to phone or email, but I will do my best to keep blogging on my adventures. If all goes well, I will be blogging from Seattle by tomorrow.

 

T.J. Martin

Opelika, AL

www.tjmartin.org

Back to reality, for a short while

Despite the fact that we stayed up until the wee hours of the morning playing cards, we woke up this morning, cleaned up the cabin and began our trek back home to Alabama. Overall the trip to the mountains was an amazing time. This trip was filled with many adventures and spectacular views. Nothing can beat a respite away from reality with good friends. We stopped by to visit grandma today, had lunch, and continued on our way back home.

 

Now that I am home, I wish I was still up in the mountains. With beautiful scenery all around, it made even doing work-related things great.  Even though I told people I was on vacation, I can never take a real vacation from work. With our Team Focus summer leadership camp less than a month away, there is much to do to get ready, and I find it difficult not to at least accomplish something work-related to make sure we are ready for this camp.

 

So in a way, this trip to the mountains was a warm-up vacation. Due to my own OCD I was unable to escape work, however, my dad and I are about to fly out to the west coast for a serious vacation. I will do my best to blog, however, the point of a vacation is to escape and relax. I think our trip to Alaska and Seattle will be a great opportunity for the two of us to do just that. However, in the back of my mind I know that when we get back, I've got to hit the ground running to make sure our summer camp runs smoothly. But for now it is an opportunity for Dad and me to get away and enjoy the real last American frontier – Alaska. For now it is back to reality, at least for a short while.

 

T.J. Martin

Opelika, AL

www.tjmartin.org

 

Tons of hiking and a great last day! (Update from N.C.)

Yesterday we spent an afternoon hiking around Bearwallow Mountain. At first we decided we wanted to trek to the creek, and that trek took us on an adventure down the mountain. We got back, showered, and headed over the river and through the woods to grandma's house. We had a great time, ate some great food, and had some great company. It was fun to be able to ride around Bonclarken and see the new family house there. We had fun, had some laughs and then headed back to Gerton.

 

Today we went for a beautiful visit to Chimney Rock State Park. We hiked up to Chimney Rock and then further on up to Exclamation Point. After a brief rest at the Sky Lounge while listening to a dulcimer musician play we hiked over to Hickory Nut Falls. After hiking for many hours we drove back up Hwy 74 and pulled over to put our feet in the ice cold river. The water was absolutely cold, but was soothing to our sore feet.

 

Wes cooked pizza and I cooked some vegetable stir-fry for dinner. We filled up, played a game of Clue, and then had a final night bonfire. Now I'm uploading some photos, we might play a little poker, and then it is bedtime. We have to be up early in the morning to pack, load up, clean up, and head back to Alabama. Our restful vacation is has been great while it lasted, but alas! All good things must come to an end.

 

T.J. Martin

Gerton, NC

www.tjmartin.org

 

A Day To Recoup

Yesterday we hiked up Big Glassy Mountain in Flat Rock. It was a beautiful hike and got us out in the fresh air and enjoying nature. I have hiked Big Glassy many times; however, it is always a different experience. It was a great opportunity to hike with good friends.

 

Last night was burger night. Wes cooked some burgers on the outside grill that were delicious. We enjoyed burgers, potato salad, cole slaw, chips, and baked beans. It was a great dinner, and was followed up by a friendly game of poker. Some of us stayed up until the early hours this morning talking and sharing stories, which combined with our aching joints and sore muscles from yesterday's hike has resulted in us staying around the cabin today. We were discussing possibly going to Chimney Rock or Dupont Forest; however, sore muscles have gotten the best of us.

 

I have spent the morning on a conference call and doing some work, although I may be on a brief vacation, there is too much to do with Team Focus to go too long without getting things done. As is typical with college students, everyone else is waking up here in time for lunch. The aroma of reheated burgers and Lucky Charms fills the air as guys wake up and can't decide whether they are in the lunch or breakfast mood. Some guys have talked about hiking down to the creek and we may go over to Flat Rock early and ride around. However, today is dedicated to recouping from our hike.

 

T.J. Martin

Gerton, NC

www.tjmartin.org

Up Above the Clouds (Update from N.C.)

The time has finally arrived. We are in the Great Smokey Mountains enjoying the crisp, cool air of North Carolina. The time has come for some much needed rest and relaxation. Throughout the past 9 years of my life, I have battled my freshman fifteen (more like fifty), sophomore slump, junior jinx, and bouts of senioritis in both high school and college. Having now moved on to the working world I am facing new challenges and obstacles. North Carolina is an opportunity to refresh mind, body and soul. We get into a habit of answering phone calls, sending emails, filling out paperwork, and forget to provide opportunities for true fellowship with friends and family. Throughout my life I have been truly blessed to have North Carolina as a place where I can retreat, refocus, and spend quality time with those I care about.

 

We are here in the hills of North Carolina for a vacation. We are a group comprised of college graduates, soon-to-be college graduates, siblings, and friends. With no video games to interrupt the enjoyment of the nature that surrounds us. The cabin has been filled with games like Othello, Poker, and Chess. As I sit on the sofa and look out at the view I am serenaded by the sounds of an acoustic guitar being played on the back porch, and the chatter of friendly discussions mixed with occasional laughter.

 

Yesterday the other group arrived in the morning; we relaxed at the cabin, took a hike up the road and enjoyed the sights of the beautiful green vegetation along the way. We had dinner at Hannah Flanagan's Irish Pub and went shopping at Sam's Club for some food for our stay. Today everyone took the opportunity to sleep in, while I took the opportunity to do some work. I was able to make some phone calls and go over some paperwork prior to having an early lunch. Those who are awake are spending their midday reading, writing, and enjoying the view. We were going to attempt to go to Chimney Rock, but might wait until more sunshine tomorrow. For right now we are enjoying the peaceful serenity that comes with being in the mountains, up above the clouds.

 

That is all for now, I'm off to take a walk.

 

T.J. Martin

Gerton, NC

www.tjmartin.org

 

 

Is there a simpler life?

So I have been thinking about our current society. We focus on politics, news, money, and all kinds of material possessions. We spend our days absorbed in all kinds of technology and media. Generation after generation is being conditioned to this fast-paced, technology-drenched, material-possessed living. Is it too much to ask for us to step away from these things for awhile?

I've been reflecting on where I am currently at in my life, and I have reached a conclusion. Most everyone in this society is after financial stability. We seek jobs that have great salaries, benefits, 401Ks but for what reason? We are seeking financial stability. Not just currently, but long term. We want to be able to make enough money to support a family, have money set aside so we can retire, and some people want to have enough to make a difference and help others. Currently in our society money is one main resource needed to do these things adequetly. Therefore we spend our lives on a quest for education, training, or whatever else we need to obtain a career that provides us with enough money.

However, if you had an opportunity to live where you could provide for your family, retire securely, and help others without requiring money, would you want to? Are there any places in this would where that is possible? Is it even possible in the world of today to go back and live a content life where a paycheck, stock portfolio, and retirement account are not necessary? I believe it is, and although I'm not risky enough to attempt to do so yet, I am interested in learning about the opportunities to do so. 

Some people take vacations to retreat from this fast-paced world we live in. What if we could escape it altogether and still live a successful and content life? How many people would we be willing to trade in our fast-paced, technology-drenched, material-possessed living to have more time to focus on the things that really matter in life?

Just another thought to consider.

T.J. Martin
Opelika, AL
www.tjmartin.org

I've hit a slump

Throughout my high school and college life I have been able to easily find the joy in life. However, at this point in time in my life I am finding it hard to be enthusiastic and passionate. I don't know why but I've lost my enthusiasm. With frustrations at home and frustrations at work, I have spent the past few weeks rather frustrated. After a quite emotional Fall 2009, I was looking forward to taking a break from class and focusing on work. I have many things to be thankful for. I try to thank God everyday for the people he has put in my path, the family he has given me, and the many blessings I have to be grateful for.

 

But nonetheless, I've lost my passion for writing and reading. I've fallen down when it comes to my daily scripture reading and prayer life. I don't enjoy waking up and don't enjoy sleeping. TV doesn't interest me. Food has lost its flavor, and I'm not extremely motivated about anything. I've hit a slump and don't know why.

 

It's not that I don't know how I need to feel, or what I should be doing, it's that I'm not motivated. When I was at college I was always around people. Even when I was in my room by myself, I knew there were people not far away. Currently, I'm not around a whole lot of people. Although I'm an only child, over the past nine years I have developed into more of a people person.

 

For whatever reason, I'm not feeling like myself. Perhaps a vacation is in order. Coming soon I will have the tremendous opportunity to visit Alaska and attend a family wedding in Washington. This summer will be filled with trips related to both work and pleasure. With friends getting married and friends graduating from college there are many reasons to celebrate and be joyful. However, I think I need some personal rest and relaxation before I'm prepared to get back to being myself. The time has come for me to refocus; hopefully a real vacation will help get me back on track.

 

I have recently discovered a song by Billy Dean called "Only Here For A Little While". The song has a great message and as I try to refocus on where I'm at in my life I feel this song sums up what I've got to put into action when it says:

 

"What's the hurry, why the runnin'?
I don't like what I'm becoming, gonna change my style
Take my time and not take it all for granted "
Cause we're only here for a little while

Let me love like I'll never see tomorrow
Treat each day as though it's borrowed
Like it's precious as a child
Whoa, take my hand
Let us reach out to each other
Cause we're only here for a little while

Gonna hold who needs holdin'
Mend what needs mendin'
Walk what needs walkin'
Though it means an extra mile
Pray what needs prayin'
Say what needs sayin'
Cause we're only here for a little while

 

 

T.J. Martin

Opelika, AL

 

 

Are we sure we are the experts?

We has humans yearn to know the unknown. We do our best to rationalize what we cannot understand. Who are we to say that we know everything or that we are even capable of knowing everything? Is it too much to say that there are some things we will never know or will never be capable of knowing? And if we acknowledge that we are not experts, is it too much to say that perhaps there is an expert?

A.W. Tozer says that, "the yearning to know what cannot be known, to comprehend the incomprehensible ... arises from the image of God in the nature of man ... the soul senses its origin and longs to return to its source. 

Even scientists agree that at some point in time what we know didn't exist. At some point the matter from which we all came from had to be created, unless it exists infinitely. But we all know that matter can be destroyed, but energy can be transferred. If energy has been continuously transferred from the beginning of time, where was the energy originally generated? If we are to say that this energy has always existed is it a far stretch to say that there is an expert who has always existed?

Just another thought to consider.

T.J. Martin
Opelika, Al

Shut your door and pray

When we pray, Jesus directs us to "go into your room, and when you have shut your door, pray to your Father . . ."

(Matthew 6:6). 

 

In the busy world of today many times we may find it difficult to spend private time with God. There are so many things nowadays that many of us would prefer doing than sitting quietly with God. However, that is exactly what we are instructed to do.

 

For many years I thought that it was ok to have a conversation with God while driving down the road or while in the shower. And while I feel that is still ok, I have realized that's not enough. Now I have begun to realize that God wants more from us. He wants a relationship, and as we all know a relationship requires more than a five to ten minute conversation every once and awhile. A relationship requires time and dedication.

 

With so many distractions in our lives today, I encourage you to do as Jesus instructs us in the Book of Matthew, to "go into your room" shut the door and spend time with God.

 

Take time out of your day to focus on your relationship with our Heavenly Father.

 

Just another thought to consider

 

Timothy (T.J.) Martin

Opelika, AL

Can Congress mandate economic transactions?

Can Congress really require that every person purchase health insurance from a private company or face a penalty? Currently the healthcare legislation extends the Commerce Clause's power beyond economic activity to economic inactivity. That is unprecedented. While Congress has used its taxing power to fund Social Security and Medicare, never before has it used its commerce power to mandate that an individual person engage in an economic transaction with a private company. Regulating the auto industry or paying "cash for clunkers" is one thing; making everyone buy a Chevy is quite another. Even during World War II, the federal government did not mandate that individual citizens purchase war bonds. If you choose to drive a car, then maybe you can be made to buy insurance against the possibility of inflicting harm on others. But making you buy insurance merely because you are alive.

* from story by Randy Barnett in The Washington Post

 

The Constitution of the United States:

Article I, Section 8 – Commerce Clause

"The Congress shall have Power …To regulate Commerce with foreign Nations, among the several States, and with the Indian Tribes;…"

Amendment IX

"The enumeration in the Constitution, of certain rights, shall not be construed to deny or disparage others retained by the people."

Amendment X

"The powers not delegated to the United States by the Constitution, nor prohibited by it to the States, are reserved to the States respectively, or to the people."

 

 

 

Refined and prepared

Throughout my life the Lord has placed me in positions and situations that have prepared and equipped me for what He has planned. Although I'm not very old, I can look back and see the knowledge and experience I have gained from coincidently being in the right place at the right time and being "right man for the job."

 

In college, I found my extra-curricular activities more fun than the classroom so I felt led to change to a major that would be more suitable for the work I did with non-profits and service organizations. Originally I was an education major until called to change from high school education to communications and leadership. I was involved with many extra-curricular activities which led to both sought-after and unwanted leadership positions being given to me. Each opportunity to lead whither wanted or unwanted was an opportunity for me to serve. There were many successes that were accomplished and failures that had to be endured. These experiences provided many opportunities to learn valuable life-lessons.

 

In case it wasn't already known, there was a time in college when I fell away from my Christian upbringing. It was a time of questioning and rationalizing my religion, and I can look back on that time and see that even though I wasn't exactly living a good life the Lord was still working in me and preparing me. It is amazing to look back at the vast experiences I had throughout high school and college and see how it has prepared me for where I have been currently placed. My current job with Team Focus provides an opportunity to incorporate all the knowledge, skills, and experiences I have been so very fortunate to have. Though many hardships and obstacles have come my way; I can now see that those hardships and obstacles have refined me into who I am and prepared me for the job the Lord has set before me.

 

Timothy (T.J.) Martin

Opelika, AL

Keep thirsting after righteousness

Giving all diligence, may I add to my faith virtue, to virtue knowledge, to knowledge self-control, to self-control perseverance, to perseverance godliness, to godliness brotherly kindness, and to brotherly kindness love.  – 2 Pet. 1:5-7

 

" ^*One of the most encouraging Scriptures in the Bible is 2 Corinthians 4:7: "But we have this treasure in earthen vessels, that the excellency of the power may be of God, and not of us." Then Paul goes on to describe those earthen vessels—dying men, troubled on every side, perplexed, persecuted, cast down. And even though never forsaken or in despair, those men being used by God are constantly under the burden of their bodies, waiting anxiously to be clothed with new ones."

 

May I not go on presenting the members of my body as instruments of unrighteousness to sin, but may I present myself to You as being alive from the dead, and my members as instruments of righteousness to You.  – Rom. 6:13

 

" ^*Have you failed? Is there a sin that so easily besets you? Do you feel like a weakened coward, unable to get the victory over secret sin? But with that weakness in you, is there also a hunger for God? Do you yearn for him—love him—reach to him? That hunger and thirst is the key to your victory. That makes you different from all the others who have been guilty of failing God. That sets you apart. You must keep that hunger alive. Keep thirsting after righteousness. Never justify your weakness—never give in to it—and never accept it as a part of your life."

 

Father, as a sojourner and pilgrim, grant that I may abstain from fleshly lusts which wage war against my soul.  – 1 Pet. 2:11

 

^*taken from David Wilkerson Today, 3-12-10

 

 

T.J. Martin

Opelika, AL

Search me, set a guard, and direct my steps

Search me, O God, and know my heart;

Try me, and now my anxieties;

And see if there is any wicked way in me,

And lead me in the way everlasting.

                Ps. 139:23,24

 

Set a guard, O Lord, over my mouth;

Keep watch over the door of my lips.

Do not incline my heart to any evil thing.

                Ps. 141:3,4

 

Direct my steps in Your word,

And let no iniquity have dominion over me.

                Ps. 119:133

 

 

T.J. Martin

Opelika, AL

Iran's determination to trigger global chaos

It is important for us to unnderstand the events happening in the world around us. It is important to understand different religious thought and different points of view. For our government leaders I believe it is even more important for them to understand different cultures and thoughts so to assist in diplomacy. After researching statements made by Iranian president Ahmadinejad I have begun to understand the motives behind his controversal actions and positions. Ahmadinejad has stated on the record that he feels he plays an important role in the bringing back of their messiah. As a nation and as a world we have not faced this type of religious zeal as it pertians to a government. In dealing with this type of religious idealology there is not much room for negotiation. I have come to understand, as I hope our government will, that Ahmadinejad is determined to bring about chaos and bloodshed. Watch what Joel Rosenberg has to say.

 

It will give you some thoughts to consider.

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-BV4hKOL_10

 

T.J. Martin

Opelika, AL

Find happiness, live in His will

In the very beginning of Psalms we are told that "Blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked or stand in the way of sinners or sit in the seat of mockers. But his delight is in the law of the LORD, and on his law he meditates day and night" (Psalms 1:1-2).

 

We are told that we must meditate on the law day and not, and if we pay attention to the Lord's instruction we will prosper and be blessed (Proverbs 16:20). Many people search their entire life for true happiness. Many people have all the material possessions of this earth available to them, yet no joy, no happiness. The question must be asked, where does true happiness and joy come from?

 

According to scripture, if we heed the law of the Lord and follow His will we will be blessed, and would that not be a cause for happiness? Spend time throughout the day reading His word and understanding His will for your life. Live in His will and obey His law and watch your gloomy days turn into happy ones.

 

Just another thought to consider.

 

T.J. Martin

Opelika, Al

 

 

Daily Priorities

This morning I was reading in the book of Mark and came across an interesting thought. I was reading in the Maxwell Leadership Bible and John Maxwell makes an interesting point in that Jesus didn't let others dictate His agenda. Many times throughout Jesus' ministry He left the "demands of His work to come apart and pray. He used this solitude to regain perspective and once more see the big picture." Jesus didn't set priorities based on fame or fortune, but rather his priorities came from His heavenly Father. In times when we may question what our role is in life or what direction we should be heading, we need to ask ourselves, where do our priorities come from? Do we take time daily to pray and look for guidance? Don't let others dictate your agenda; let us do as Jesus did and take time every day to escape the rigors of daily life and seek Him in prayer for guidance. Make it a priority.

 

Just another thought to consider.

 

T.J. Martin

Opelika, AL

Don't know about the Saints, but I like Drew Brees

Don't know about the Saints, but I like Drew Brees

 

So even though they beat my Colts, and now they should be on my forever dislike list (along with the Patriots, Chargers, and 49ers) I have found a reason to like the Saints. Drew Brees talks with  Jill Ewert, the editor of Sharing the Victory Magazine. He shares his story and his faith in Christ., check it out.

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t0buCfbFuHw

My favorite three 2010 Super Bowl ads

This year I had a personal interest in the super bowl. Even though my Colts didn't win, I'm glad they made it. I'll be looking for good things from them next season. With the super bowl come commercials. I'll have to say that I wasn't as impressed with the commercials this year as in previous years, but there were still some good ones. After much thought I have narrowed down my favorites to three company commercials: Volkswagen, Denny's, and Google.

 

T.J.'s Top Three Super Bowl Ads

 

1.      "Volkswagen's, 'Punching Game'" – This commercial is both genius and humorous. Stevie Wonder makes the commercial stand out at the end. It has a great "punch" line. A great commercial about a great game with some good humor. – Check it out: http://bit.ly/c3K3jL

 

2.      "Denny's, 'Chicken Warning'" – This comical commercial was well-planned and was made great with the fact that there were follow-up commercials. I love the chicken in outer space, and was Denny's sending a message by having the president being a chicken? Check  all of them out: http://bit.ly/dc3hh6    http://bit.ly/dfqHjs    http://bit.ly/dCP8Wn 

 

3.      "Google's 'Parisian Love'" – You had to be paying attention to this commercial, all the way through. Although it doesn't have a funny "punch" line or screaming chickens, it makes a good point. Google has become such an everyday part of our lives; many of us don't realize how much we may use it or how useful it is. For many of us, Google has become a vital part of our information gathering and our lives. Check it out: http://bit.ly/9tVk48

 

Other Favorites that didn't make the top 3:

    Snickers game with Betty White - http://bit.ly/bhMI1k

    Monster.com's Fiddling Beaver - http://bit.ly/bVdOx5

    Cars.com's Timothy Richman - http://bit.ly/ccCk1l

    Budweiser human bridge - http://bit.ly/dzy0IG

    Punxsutawney Polamalu - http://bit.ly/bKzLbt

 

T.J. Martin

Opelika, Al

A Psalm from my morning prayers

Purge me with hyssop, and I shall be clean;

Wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow.

Make me hear joy and gladness,

That the bones You have broken may rejoice.

Hide Your face from my sins,

And blot out all my iniquities.

Create in me a clean heart, O God,

And renew a steadfast spirit within me.

Do not cast me away from Your presence,

And do not take Your Holy Spirit from me.

Restore to me the joy of Your salvation,

And uphold me by Your generous Spirit.

Then I will teach transgressors Your ways,

And sinners shall be converted to You.

 

- Ps. 51:7-13